New and Best Psychological Way To Attract Girls
What makes people attractive to one another? Why do some men find it so easy to attract women, while others struggle to get any attention from the opposite sex? Contrary to popular belief, there’s not a single magic thing that makes someone attractive, but there are ways of manipulating people’s subconscious minds to draw them in and make them want you. It can seem like black magic, but these techniques aren’t anything supernatural—they’re psychological tricks designed to subconsciously trigger certain reactions in the opposite sex so they can’t help but notice you.
The Psychology of Attraction: How to Win Over Any Girl
1. Don’t depend on looks
First impressions are important, but people can and do change. If you judge a book by its cover, you’re doing yourself (and whoever you’re eyeing) a disservice. Don’t rely on physical attributes alone to determine whether someone is worth your time. You should be able to get to know people first and foremost as who they are—not what they look like.
2. Dress sharp
We’re not saying you have to bust out a white tux or anything, but putting some effort into your appearance can go a long way. If you’re not sure where or how to start (or what girls like), check out our guides on wearing better clothes and dressing for your body type. Take it from us, we know looking good makes us feel good too!
3. Have good posture
First impressions are important, and body language communicates a lot about your personality. Good posture not only shows confidence but can help you appear slimmer and taller. But it’s more than that. Good posture makes you feel better and thus exudes positive energy—and that can make others gravitate toward you naturally. Additionally, standing up straight allows for better breathing and reduces stress on your back muscles, joints, and spine.
4. Learn social cues
Studying body language, facial expressions, and other nonverbal communication can make a world of difference in how you interact with others. If you're new to reading social cues, take an introductory course in psychology or communications so that you can sharpen your skills. Then test them out—interact with someone new at work or on a date and see how quickly you can correctly identify their feelings.
5. Have a great sense of humor
Being able to laugh at yourself and have a lighthearted approach is attractive. It’s also good in that it makes you more fun to be around, so she’ll look forward to your interactions. Developing a sense of humor means improving upon what you already have—areas like wit, spontaneity, and general cleverness can all help you be more fun-loving.
6. Make her laugh
Humor makes you fun, and most women want a fun guy. If she’s smiling and having a good time, she’ll be much more receptive to your flirting. If there are two or more guys trying to hit on her, she won’t remember every interaction in detail—but if you make her laugh (and give her positive vibes), that will stick with her. It’s not rocket science; try saying something clever or ask her a silly question!
7. Be athletic and in shape
Being in shape improves your appearance, which is important when trying to attract women. It also boosts your confidence and helps you socialize with ease. Even if you don’t consider yourself an athlete, it’s not too late to pick up a sport like tennis or running. In no time, you can turn yourself into a hunk that girls can’t resist!
8. Show that you are fun and adventurous
Maybe you’re a thrill-seeker who wants your significant other to enjoy exciting, new activities with you. Maybe you want to be that guy who is spontaneous and breaks out of his routine for her. Maybe you like being an active participant in many aspects of life and want someone who shares these values. Whatever it is, know what kind of person attracts you and show your date that type of person as often as possible.